Comments on: Controversy: Surrogate Mothers http://birthparents.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/controversy-surrogate-mothers A blog for and about parents who have placed a child for adoption. Tue, 17 Nov 2009 16:02:45 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: angelbaby0596 http://birthparents.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/controversy-surrogate-mothers/comment-page-1#comment-649 angelbaby0596 Wed, 16 Apr 2008 19:51:56 +0000 http://birth-first.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/04/09/controversy-surrogate-mothers#comment-649 Being a birthmother I truely thought about becoming a surrogate. I didn't do it only for the reason of not really connecting with the intended parents and why they didn't adopt a set of twins in Russia that they went to adopt. I feel a need to help other families, however, I could not place my biological child for adoption again. Yes I believe the emotions would be high and I would go through some of the same emotions as when I placed my daughter. While chosing weather to be their surrogate or not I asked them if they would keep me updated and they said that it would be wonderful for me to be an auntie. I thought that was great and I think I could deal with it. I don't know why I have this feeling of needing to help people that are unable to have children but I do. I guess I look at my wonderful children and feel so blessed but then at the same time I wonder, if people were meant to be parents then God would have a way for them through either adoption or biologically. I guess I really have some mixed emotions about this subject. Being a birthmother I truely thought about becoming a surrogate. I didn’t do it only for the reason of not really connecting with the intended parents and why they didn’t adopt a set of twins in Russia that they went to adopt. I feel a need to help other families, however, I could not place my biological child for adoption again. Yes I believe the emotions would be high and I would go through some of the same emotions as when I placed my daughter. While chosing weather to be their surrogate or not I asked them if they would keep me updated and they said that it would be wonderful for me to be an auntie. I thought that was great and I think I could deal with it. I don’t know why I have this feeling of needing to help people that are unable to have children but I do. I guess I look at my wonderful children and feel so blessed but then at the same time I wonder, if people were meant to be parents then God would have a way for them through either adoption or biologically. I guess I really have some mixed emotions about this subject.

]]> By: angelbaby0596 http://birthparents.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/controversy-surrogate-mothers/comment-page-1#comment-648 angelbaby0596 Wed, 16 Apr 2008 19:50:37 +0000 http://birth-first.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/04/09/controversy-surrogate-mothers#comment-648 Being a birthmother I truely thought about becoming a surrogate. I didn't do it only for the reason of not really connecting with the intended parents and why they didn't adopt a set of twins in Russia that they went to adopt. I feel a need to help other families, however, I could not place my biological child for adoption again. Yes I believe the emotions would be high and I would go through some of the same emotions as when I placed my daughter. While chosing weather to be their surrogate or not I asked them if they would keep me updated and they said that it would be wonderful for me to be an auntie. I thought that was great and I think I could deal with it. I don't know why I have this feeling of needing to help people that are unable to have children but I do. I guess I look at my wonderful children and feel so blessed but then at the same time I wonder, if people were meant to be parents then God would have a way for them through either adoption or biologically. I guess I really have some mixed emotions about this subject. Being a birthmother I truely thought about becoming a surrogate. I didn’t do it only for the reason of not really connecting with the intended parents and why they didn’t adopt a set of twins in Russia that they went to adopt. I feel a need to help other families, however, I could not place my biological child for adoption again. Yes I believe the emotions would be high and I would go through some of the same emotions as when I placed my daughter. While chosing weather to be their surrogate or not I asked them if they would keep me updated and they said that it would be wonderful for me to be an auntie. I thought that was great and I think I could deal with it. I don’t know why I have this feeling of needing to help people that are unable to have children but I do. I guess I look at my wonderful children and feel so blessed but then at the same time I wonder, if people were meant to be parents then God would have a way for them through either adoption or biologically. I guess I really have some mixed emotions about this subject.

]]> By: Jenna Hatfield http://birthparents.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/controversy-surrogate-mothers/comment-page-1#comment-647 Jenna Hatfield Sat, 12 Apr 2008 15:46:06 +0000 http://birth-first.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/04/09/controversy-surrogate-mothers#comment-647 While I love Tina Fey, I won't be paying any money to see that movie. While I love Tina Fey, I won’t be paying any money to see that movie.

]]> By: hesska http://birthparents.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/controversy-surrogate-mothers/comment-page-1#comment-646 hesska Sat, 12 Apr 2008 03:48:42 +0000 http://birth-first.www.adoptionblogs.com/2008/04/09/controversy-surrogate-mothers#comment-646 As a birth mother, choosing to be a surrogate mother makes me extremely uncomfortable. I sympathize with women who desperately want a baby, but for another woman to carry in your place, on purpose, is just too sticky. <br /> <br /> Speaking of surrogate mothers, did you know that there is a movie coming out at the end of this month about this very subject? It’s a comedy! <br /> As a birth mother, choosing to be a surrogate mother makes me extremely uncomfortable. I sympathize with women who desperately want a baby, but for another woman to carry in your place, on purpose, is just too sticky.

Speaking of surrogate mothers, did you know that there is a movie coming out at the end of this month about this very subject? It’s a comedy!

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