Yes, we all come from different perspectives, but when the approach toward areas of agreement … and there are many … is sidetracked by extreme views, many stop in their tracks and dig in.

The ‘out there on the fringes’ folks are few and far between, but they’re obstreperous and demanding. Too often people leaning toward their views encourage them to take over the conversation, or vehemently discourage any critical analysis, thereby aligning themselves with those who may only be in the conversation to highjack it for their own limited purposes.

I think it’s up to all of us to remain true to our focus … our battle … and ‘fight’ it on our own terms, rather than relinquish control to others who have no intention of working WITH anyone.

If we can do this, it seems to me that it will be much easier to find a middle ground that’s not a battle ground, but a place where we can appreciate each other’s experience and work together for the mutual benefit of all.