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	<title>Comments on: A &#8220;Do Not!&#8221; in Open Adoption Visiting Turns into a Do</title>
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		<title>By: Erin212</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erin212</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Mar 2007 18:26:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent!  During our last visit the bees mom had to leave the room sometimes when I was feeding her because it was hard for her to watch (the bee wouldn&#039;t eat for her).  I was fine with that!  Open adoption is HARD and PAINFUL, but I don&#039;t want the negative emotions to be hidden because I think the bee will benefit knowing that she was loved beyond measure and that we could all be honest with each other about our emotions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent!  During our last visit the bees mom had to leave the room sometimes when I was feeding her because it was hard for her to watch (the bee wouldn&#8217;t eat for her).  I was fine with that!  Open adoption is HARD and PAINFUL, but I don&#8217;t want the negative emotions to be hidden because I think the bee will benefit knowing that she was loved beyond measure and that we could all be honest with each other about our emotions.</p>
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		<title>By: Coley S.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Coley S.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Mar 2007 18:18:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very good tip Jenna! One we learned the hard way as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very good tip Jenna! One we learned the hard way as well.</p>
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